In class we discussed about many
stereotypes, typologies and common places relate to sexual assault. We also
talked about different assumptions and how these assumptions being generated. And
someone in class said people tend to blame the institution instead of the
offender in the case of school rape. But the instructor said the institution
does hold some responsibility for the blame because it’s school’s
responsibility to set up rules to protect students. I think it’s interesting
that in the case of rape, there are so many factors or elements to blame, so that
you can’t be sure whether the offender holds the entire responsibility for the
case. As we talked about in class, some people blame for the media for
distorting the story and causing more traumatic experience for the victim; some
blame for school or the sorority for not setting rules against sexual
harassment; and some blame for the hospital which hides the truth and severity
of rape. I think it’s interesting that people would rather blame anything else
rather than the offender. I think it has a lot to do with male privilege and
the way culture is constructed. Since people in the society view man as more
powerful and holds more privilege, so they tend to grand more privilege to man
when rape happens. This is why man are well protected, especially by media, and
women suffers. But the society is supposed to work together to solve the case
and make the situation better, but they are not self-conscious and cannot
realize the pain they added to the victims. So I think the reason rape is so
pervasive in American society has a lot to do with self-awareness. Because
nobody would stand up and say “rape” is wrong, and what they do is just blaming
everything except for those who caused the rape. If anyone is truly to blame,
they should also blame themselves for contributing to the bad social influence.
In chapter 4, the author talked about
conjecture, degree and possibility, which are important devices to help
determine the truth behind the case of rape. In my opinion, the most interesting
part from the chapter is different perspective contains entirely different
(even opposite) commonplaces. For example, socialism and fascism holds opposite
perspectives and commonplaces on political spectrum. If so, when apply this
fact in a rape case, I think it would be really messy to evaluate all
commonplaces from different people. The chapter shows that rhetorical
commonplaces provide evidence (p.101). But what if one person’s perception is preferred;
will commonplaces based on that perception be considered more convincing than
other evidences?
In class students also talked about
commonplaces in rape. Such as the reason so little rape are reported is because
women are uneducated in rape culture. I think it’s interesting that neither
women nor men consider being raped as a big deal. They maybe think of rape as
merely sex. And the reason they don’t think sex is a big deal is because of the
way American culture is shaped. When everybody else is doing it, you want to do
it too. Another factor is the media. Girls learned that having sex is normal
from TV shows because TV programs don’t portray sex as sexual harassment or
rape, rather they portray it as romantic, sexy, attractive and exciting. Now
you notice that young school girls would invite guys to their dorms. I think it’s
interesting that guys also don’t think rape as a big deal, as the instructor
said in a survey 30% man would rather force themselves on girls, even when they
know they will be reported. I think that maybe guys don’t care about their
bodies either because they have nothing to lose; they will never get pregnant.
Same reason they careless about a girl’s body; because they don’t think the way
about rape as girls does. They have nothing to lose and they assume that girls
think the same. And guys’ perceptions about their body also are shaped by
media. They maybe view themselves as sexual objects just as male characters
portrayed in the movie. Such perceptions can be dangerous sometimes such as in
the actual case of rape; and I think because of this reason guys require more
restriction and education than girls do.
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